*nods* Yes. And it's a scary word for a lot of parents. But it's not the end of the world. I mean, my mun is autistic, and she's come out all right. For that matter, so am I. Don't be too worried about what you see now; children grow and change a lot. Give her what she needs, and, sooner or later, she'll spread her wings and soar. *smiles*
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