Ahh, my friend, it sounds like you need to go have a talk with a certain son of Mogh and his counselors-cum-ex-girlfriends. (Either the poor guy ends up with women who are going to die in a year or two--Jadzia or K'Ehleyr--or with counselors--Deanna or Ezri. Yep, he'd fit right in here at the PPC, wouldn't he?!)

Hope you figure all this out.